AC/DC Refers to a person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity, Bi or Bisexual	DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.	IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat	P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).	SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood	ENGLISH CULTURE: Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning	ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female	PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.	SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
ADULT Euphemism for pornographic	ENTERTAIN (see CAN ENTERTAIN)	LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.	RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.	SWM Single White Male
ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)	EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.	LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)	RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.	TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position.	F Female	LTR Long Term Relationship	ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)	THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.	FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.	MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.	ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies	TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.	FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.	MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.	RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.	TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
ANIMAL TRAINING Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality	FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.	MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)	S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope.	TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures	FRENCH CULTURE: Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio	MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).	SBF Single Black Female	TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
BACK DOOR ACTION Anal intercourse	FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity.	MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.	SBiF Single Bisexual Female	TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL)
B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to	GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.	MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)	SBM Single Black Male	TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive.	GBM Gay Black Male	MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)	SGL (see SINGLE)	TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
BESTIALITY (see ANIMAL TRAINING)	GENEROUS Refers to money for sex.	MBC Married Black Couple	S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).	TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
BI Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC)	GREEK CULTURE: Anal-penile intercourse	MBiC Married Bisexual Couple	SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.	UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.	GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).	MWC Married White Couple	SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.	VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
CLOSED DOOR (see CLOSED SWINGING)	GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.	NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.	SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.	VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.	GWM Gay White Male	NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers.	SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.	VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)	HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.	NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.	SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.	VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.	HARD SWINGING (see HARD CORE)	OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.	SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).	VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
CPL (see COUPLE)	HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French)	OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING)	SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).	VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.	HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure.	OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.	STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.	WATERSPORTS Usually refers to engaging in pee play (peeing on someone or having them pee on you), can also refer to the use of enemas in sexual activities.
CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)	HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.	ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)	STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT)	WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.
D/D Free Drug and Disease Free	HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)	ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.	STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.	BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.	HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.	PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.	SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)	BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires
DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.	HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis.	PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.	SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.	BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.	HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.	PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.	SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another	CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
DISCREET OR DISCRETION Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.	INDOOR Swinging activities in general	PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)	SWF Single White Female	CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).	INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR)	PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.	SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.	SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.	INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.	PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.	SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

 

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